Charles Christenson

Charles Christenson, our beloved father, passed away peacefully January 17th, 2007. We created this blog in memory of our father and to share our memory of him with others. Please feel free to post comments, kind thoughts, and best wishes.

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Monday, December 31, 2018

如何在生命的沙漠中,找到清涼的湧泉?

 

 

 

 

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如何在生命的沙漠中,找到清涼的湧泉?


生命不在於長短,不管你是病死、老死
或被車撞死,一樣是死啊!
重點是你在接近死亡的這個過程裡面
你生命有沒有一點創意!

 


什麼叫沙漠?

 

黄沙滾滾、一覽無遺的沒有希望,

不知道水源在哪裡?不知道綠洲在哪裡?

 

而因為這樣幾乎快活不下去了!

渴得要死、走不下去、口乾舌燥、天旋地轉、幾乎快垮下去了!

這是生命的痛苦!


所以在沙漠當中看到幻想的海市蜃樓那就是最美的!

因為那個幻想的海市蜃樓讓他還有可以活下去,

可以撐下去的一個能量、力量!


海市蜃樓對於在沙漠當中沒有方向的人

是一種麻醉、是一種止痛劑、是一種活下去的力量。

 

但是當那個海市蜃樓的夢幻破滅的時候,

只會增加一個人在沙漠當中往前走的力量消失。


所以我才説如何在生命的沙漠中要找到清涼的湧泉,

而不是找到海市蜃樓的夢幻的假快樂。


我們生命是不是也是這個樣在運作?

每一天的生活都是固定不變的模式、單調無聊,

從九點上班到五點半下班,然後回家看電視,看完電視睡覺,

第二天再重覆這樣的生活,然後到禮拜六、

禮拜天就去看個電影,或去百貨公司買個東西、逛逛街


然後重覆的週一症候群,日復一日等薪水、等下班、等放假,

最悲哀的是等退休,這不是生命的沙漠嗎?


所以你的生命是無聊而痛楚等死的痛苦人生,

但是又怕死!

 


如何找到清涼的湧泉呢?

 

事實上你生命的模式是你自己讓它固定的,因為固定很安全

也因為你内在的不安全感,所以你擁抱固定的安全,

而錯過了你生命可以去嚐試或者變動的生活


你可以去流浪啊!

你可以把家從自己的手上轉到別人的手上啊!

 

你也可以去租房子啊!

你不一定要住在一個房子十年、二十年的一成不變啊!

你可以去流浪,

你可以去擺路邊攤,

你可以去做警衛,

你也可以去送報紙,

你甚至也可以去農場替人家打工啊!


這樣你的生命會開始有能量,因為活下去真的很簡單!

 


是你為了填補那個不安全而怕變動,

這才是生命最不簡單的沙漠,

而當你能變動地去追求一些不一樣的生活方式時,

你的清涼湧泉就出現了!

所以你生命需要有智慧地來作審視,你需要來點嚐鮮!

你需要來點新鮮地嚐試!

你需要來點冒險!

你需要帶種!

 


你希望你這麼無趣地當四等公民,而錯過了這一生嗎?

還是你要當一個流浪的旅行家、你要當個冒險家?

 

生命不在於長短,不管你是病死、老死,或被車撞死,都一樣是死啊!

 

重點是,你在接近死亡的這個過程裡面,

 

你生命有沒有一點創意?

 

「莊圓師父」建議你替生命開發出一絲或者越來越多的創意,

讓自己的生命不一樣!

 

你可以把老闆fire掉啊!

而不見得一定要被老闆fire掉啊!

被資遣掉或被迫退休,不也是fire掉嗎?

 

如果你跟你太太每天鬥爭到受不了了!那你為什麼不把她fire?

或你被她fire掉也沒有關係啊!一定要把兩個人綁在一起

然後不斷地衝突嗎?

 

因為你怕變動,所以你去擁抱痛苦,那是安全的沙漠,而一點都不安全,

可是你已經習慣安全、習慣不要變動了!

 

而那「不要變」的後面的客體是痛苦的!

因為你怕變動而不斷地擁抱著痛苦,這是生命的沙漠!

 

生命真的可以活的不一樣,

去做你想做的事情,

去呼吸一點自由的空氣,

讓生命多一點創意,

帶種去品嚐生命不一樣的滋味

生命的湧泉就出現了!

 

而當你品嚐到生命的湧泉是那麼地甘甜的時候,

你生命就開始有能量,你生命就不需要再追尋了!

因為你的態度就是那個清涼的湧泉的鑰匙!


所以要當一個自在的人,你必須要帶種,怎麼樣的帶種呢?

做一個冒險家,你生命的冒險家,讓你生命不一樣!

 

讓你的小孩去過他獨立吃苦的生活,

你可以減少一點讓他依賴,

而這裡面你有沒有注意到你一直依賴你的小孩,

所以你才讓他依賴?


當你不再依賴你小孩的時候,小孩也不會再依賴你了,

因為你有能量不讓他依賴你了,

 

而你們這兩個個體就會獨立的成長

這是生命很美的狀態,這是生命很有能量的狀態。

 

這是「莊圓師父」跟大家分享的清涼的湧泉的鑰匙,謝謝大家!

 

 

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